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Dahlia's avatar

Excellent piece! As a fan, I think the desire to ask for photos and take up a celebrity’s time is directly in response to the eeriness Eliza describes. When I’m engaging with art (or content) I feel that parasocial connection and the absence of real connection. I think that asking for a celebrity’s time and for a photo is sort of a desperate attempt to bridge this eerie gap. The desire for human connection is very real, and yet in the case of celebrity totally fantastical. I think that fans (myself included) need to interrogate what it is they’re looking for when they’re seeking acknowledgement, and if a photo or a quick conversation will actually get them closer to achieving it.

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Chris M.'s avatar

The proliferation of Stan culture goes hand in hand with the immense loneliness young people are feeling. One of the things I’ve always appreciated about The Pod is how you insist that we don’t fucking know you girl!!! Acknowledging the media I consume is a close approximation for meeting a social need helped me identify what it is I envy about the dynamics I see online. This insight ultimately led me to seek that out in the real world, which has been far more fulfilling because it’s my beautiful fucking life to live. Reverence in our culture is a sign of desperation. The surface level dismissal of “it’s not that big of a deal to ask for a photo!! This artist must hate their fans” conveniently protects the fanatic entitlement to surveil people in the public eye. Instead of building a safe image of someone based on every piece of information I can glean from online, I’m more inclined to turn towards my friends and become obsessed with how they might be the next Chappell.

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